Top Mistakes Men Make in the Bedroom:
Assuming that women do not have the same sex drive as men. Donâ€™t believe for a minute that women donâ€™t like sex or want sex as much as men. While there are certainly individual differences with both genders, women love sex and want sex. If your significant other or wife is turning you down, the first thing to ask is how can you make it better for her, not how you can get her to take better care of satisfying your sexual needs.
Lack of foreplay: A woman enjoys the pleasure of her entire body being touched and caressed. She enjoys being kissed and seduced. Take the time to work your way slowly down a womanâ€™s entire body.
Beginning and ending foreplay as quickly as possible. Foreplay goes on 24/7 for a woman. The more attentive you are to her overall needs, the more connected she feels. The more connected she feels, the more responsive she will be to sexual advances.
So if your mate is tired from a long day and you are in the mood for sex, run a nice hot bath for her, put the kids to bed and I promise, that tired â€œleave me aloneâ€ mood will shift. Nurturing your woman is the best aphrodisiac you can find. Be a great partner to your mate and your mate will be a great lover in return.
Doing sex â€œyour way.â€ Most men take the lead in sexual encounters. And for some, even when a woman does take the initiative to do sex differently (her way), she is redirected to how he wants it. Sometimes this can be a match and sometimes it is not. They may love what you love and they may prefer something different. Women tend to have their own preferences on how they like to have sex. Make sure you find out what pleases your mate.
How to Stop Being so Clingy in Relationships
Let her run the show from time to time. Make sure her needs are being met. Create a safe space from which to try different things and create an intimate connection. Hot sex, tender sex and anything in-between is all great when it comes from a place of love and intimacy.